29. The Little Things

I have noticed that the little achievements, a few words of kindness or even small put-downs affect how I perceive the tenor of my day. I know that we cannot live in isolation. Every interaction we have, however little, can influence our thought, the words that spill out of our mouths and even our gestures. The question is, what will I allow to infiltrate my energy vibration to the extent that it will alter my personality?

To feel excited about being able to see a full-moon on a clear night or looking at large snowflakes in winter, are the little things I look forward to … because these are rare occurrences for me. My sight-loss has made me appreciate every detail I am able to capture, something I took for granted when I could see clearly. I wonder which other areas of my life am I taking for granted? I am aware that ‘what we don’t know, we don’t know’. The attitude of gratitude in every aspect of life therefore, would cover the little things I could be grateful for.

It is interesting how a tiny pebble stuck in my shoe remains a constant irritant until it is removed. Similarly, the ‘drip-drip’ little criticisms from others (or myself), soon shaves off any confidence I may have built up too. Often, the big things take care of themselves when the little things get our focus. After all, only today carries any power that can influence the outcome of our tomorrows, doesn’t it?  A gentle touch or an unsolicited compliment carries a heavy punch when delivered appropriately, bringing pleasure where none existed before.