Author Archives: Anjani Ghelani

Recently a family member sent a couple of interesting, thought provoking messages on social media. I overheard another member making a snide remark about the sender. This brought on a light bulb moment. So often a very pertinent message gets shot down just because we may not hold a high enough opinion of the sender. Isn’t the nugget inContinue reading “22. Don’t shoot the Messenger!”

I love to hear people’s life stories, especially of those that contribute greatly even from humble beginnings. I find myself wishing I had more courage or intelligence or talent, etc. This, I think is the reason why most of us are dissatisfied with our lives. The better possibility could be to compare ourselves with ourselves.Continue reading “21. Being the Best Version”

Even after a decade, I remember being asked if I took advantage of my sight loss. This was at a training workshop of volunteers for a charity for the blind. At the time, though I was taken aback, I did understand where this gentleman was coming from. On reflection, I wish I had had theContinue reading “20. Taking Advantage”

Being able to say ‘I don’t know’ and feeling comfortable with this, though challenging, can be freeing. In the past, when I could not find an answer to a given situation, I felt compelled to assume some possibilities to try and understand what may be going on. Over time, I have learnt the folly ofContinue reading “19. Not having an Answer”

I recently heard a workshop, that put a spotlight on what motivates our actions. Are we pushed into doing something from fear or from love? It is not often that I think about this aspect. Becoming aware of our motivation forms a major steer on how we live our lives, especially the impact it has on the stateContinue reading “18. Coming from Fear or Love?”

Seeing an intricate image close-up can show a lot of detail that we could have otherwise missed. As we step further back, it reveals more and more until the whole image is in our sight. This kind of changing perspective gives a greater understanding of the whole picture. I am sure that no one would argueContinue reading “17. Changing Perspective Changes Perception”

Whenever I have heard of an inspirational story, it has generally involved someone overcoming a challenge…beating the odds. This brings my own daily frustrations into perspective. I have noticed that when I have been embroiled in a most difficult situation, which feels quite dire at the time, once resolved, it often feels like a worthwhileContinue reading “16. Beating the Odds”

Every time I want to play my guitar, I have to tune it first. I think this is true for all instruments that are made from natural materials with moving parts. So, can this be true of our physical bodies too?… and I don’t mean the creaking of our joints! Everything in our natural worldContinue reading “15. A Tuned Instrument”

Earlier today, I asked my husband what he would like to eat for dinner, and gave him a few choices. His response was … you decide and surprise me. This happens often. It could mean that he likes everything I cook (not likely!) or that he could not be bothered to make yet another decision.Continue reading “14. Not making a Choice IS a Choice”

All three denote movement. They all elevate our breathing and heartbeat, giving us a good physical workout. However, they each differ in their result when viewed from the physical and mental perspectives.  The last couple of weeks, I have been feeling stuck. Waiting for some inspiration that would get my mind into writing! This morning itContinue reading “13. Running on the Spot, Running Around in Circles and Running Free!”